Kevin and Michelle had a great time yesterday night. As Kevin got home, they cooked food listening music together, watched their favorite show on TV together as well as had a great session of foreplay, intercourse, and after play. Also, they slept spooning all night but when Kevin offered to take Michelle out for a lunch next day; she made the excuse of not feeling well. Kevin is clueless to know what went wrong and why did she refuse to go with him as everything was fine the very previous day.
There are numberless men like Kevin who have no idea why their partner or better half changes her mind suddenly or reacts strangely when everything was normal and she too was looking in a great mood. They try their best but remain unsuccessful to find out the actual cause. If you are also a man who doesn’t have an idea about your woman’s mood; I am here to tell you why it happens and how women co-relate the things in their past as well as the present.
Why Women Suddenly Change Their Mind?
Usually, men think that if a woman is in a good mood, she would do or she should be agreed to anything he will request, and that’s the reason why a man fails to understand the main cause of a particular decision or reaction of a woman. Men think that women are mysterious, but actually, women think a bit from man. They are more far-sighted than men as well as are backed with a sharper memory. They relate each and everything with the personality of their man. They co-relate the incidents in order to ensure their comfort and find out how concerned their man is of the same.
If an unwanted incidence occurs with a woman at a particular place, for a while she may show that she isn’t affected much by the incident; but she stores the bad experience in her mind and makes sure she will avoid going to the same place or with the same person, in order to ensure her emotional comfort. For a woman, this emotional comfort matters much more than a man may think. She likes to be with a man who cares for her emotional comfort and finds it important in order to please her. She likes to go out with a man whom she knows that he is enough sincere for her emotional comfort and will try everything keep her feel comfortable throughout the date or the trip.
How Can You Fix This?
If you are also clueless about a recent strange decision of your woman, you are supposed to look for the reasons that may have upset her. You should also recall the past incidences to find out whether there is an old bad experience stopping her make a new move. Moreover, you should ensure that such embarrassing or uncomfortable incidents won’t happen in future that may make her scared and insecure. If you are out of ideas, I am giving you top 7 tips to help with the same.
- The Staring Factor: If you have taken your woman out for a lunch, you should try avoiding staring at other girls in the restaurant. If you can’t stop yourself, just take a quick, casual glance at the girl at the next table and avoid looking at the same girl again as women find it disrespectful and insulting to your date. Also, try to avoid complementing for a new lady that you haven’t complimented for your own woman at some point of time before. Such compliments make upset your partner and she may think that you more fascinated by another lady that is certainly not a good sign for a relationship.
- The Special Days: Everybody has some special days and those days are special because their loved ones make it special with their love and efforts. Days like birthdays and anniversaries are very special for a woman and she expects her man to remember those days and make some efforts to feel her important as well as special. Every time a man remembers those special days and plans for it in advance, it makes her woman fall more in love with him, with every new occasion.
- Talking About Feelings: Every time we may not mean what we say actually and that’s the reason why women prefer to talk about their feeling instead of using their imagination to read the harsh as well as sweet words. They like to know what their partner means actually and want to assured of the same. You should try having a warm conversation with your woman and she is much likely to come closer to you.
- Don’t Ignore Chivalry: While going for dinner or together or meeting at a club for a date, you are supposed to open the car’s door for your partner or pull the chair for your love interest. Though you may see sometimes that women don’t wait for you to open the car’s door or pull a chair; these are the basic things women want men to aware of. It may feel awkward you as well as your partner; if someone else in a party does that for your partner, revealing that you don’t know those basic courtesies.
- Making Love: For a man, making love may just mean sex; but for a woman, sex is just sex. For a woman, making love means cuddling, spooning, intercourse as well as after play. It has an emotional connection with women and when you have sex with your partner; make sure you go through proper foreplay, making more love to her. Try to spend more time with her through cuddling and sleeping spooned, not just during sex but also at other times.
- Shopping Company: It’s a well-known truth that women love shopping. It’s kind of a therapy for women that helps them to feel good when they are stressed or feeling low. Hence, instead of behaving like a typical man who acts as if he hates shopping, you are supposed to accompany her for shopping. It will be fun and you both will get enough time to get each-other better. Also, if you will help her select an outfit that looks great on her, she would definitely appreciate it.
- Girlfriends Matter: The female friends of a woman matter too much for. She asks for their opinions almost about each and everything and she takes their suggestions seriously. If you also want to win over your woman completely, try to win over her girlfriends too. If her girlfriends are impressed with you, half of your job is done. You won’t need to make much more efforts after then and the girlfriends of your woman will work as your evangelists. Also, if your woman is angry with you and you are finding it tough to please her; having a good term with her girlfriends will help with the same.