Are you still surprised with the strange behavior of your wife yesterday night and you have no idea why did she do that? Has your wife suddenly stopped talking you and you haven’t able to find the reason yet? Is your old colleague responding very different since you attended her birthday party and you still don’t know what your fault was? Well, it’s one of the moat complicated issues and you are not the only man facing such situations.
How Does It Start?
When a man goes on a date with, he does a lot of homework and makes many changes in his personality to please his woman and make her feel comfortable with him. He buys bouquets with roses and other flowers even if he is allergic to the smell of flowers. He tries to reach on time even if he is not habituated of that. He greets her and tries to be polite as much as he can. He asks her choice to decide the venue for date and make her feel important for him. He takes her favorite places whether it is a restaurant, a discotheque or a botanical garden. He asks her choice for lunch and accompanies her with the same. He asks about how she was brought up, what makes her happy, what likes the most, what makes her worry as well as when she gets afraid etc. he listens to her with patience and gives his reaction. He supports her when she feels low and he joins her when she laughs. Just to make her laugh, he tries to be funny even if he doesn’t have a great sense of humor. Along with paying bills and opening the door of the car for her, he ensures to make her reach home safely if it’s too late. In one sentence, you can say that a man does every possible thing to make her happy but yet he can’t get why she reacts so strange sometimes. But, you don’t need scratch your head anymore as I am here to help you with same.
What Are The Differences Between The Style of Thinking of A Man And A Woman?
Today I am going to tell you how women are different from men and what the things you need to keep in mind while approaching a woman.
It has been revealed from various studies that women have a sharper sense of smell and vision rather than men and perhaps it might be one of the reasons why women are so detail-oriented. They like to have every detail that is related to her boyfriend, her fiancé, or a person she loves. As much information she gets about a man, she gets an idea about the nature and behavior of a man and it helps her greatly to decide whether she should trust a man or not. And that’s the reason why you are suggested to give her the asked details as it may make you doubtful if find it unnecessary to answer. But it’s limited just smell and vision senses. Women have a great memory too. At times, you might have been surprised by hearing that she still remembers what color shirt you were wearing on your first date, what the special day when you proposed her was, what your previous contact number was or when you changed your old car. You may be confused if asks to name her the most favorite song but she always remembers the sweetest lines you had ever told to her, your activity that had impressed her once or anything that she likes you. You may find it unnecessary to keep in mind as you have to keep a track of various things happening in your office or your surroundings but these things are very important for a woman as she gets emotionally attached to a man and become a kind of defensive for her man. These things are also just a way to show her care and affectation for her man and you should not be irritated with the same. You should take it positively and be happy about it. The best thing about this behavior of women is that you can also ask your woman the details of a particular incident that you have been forgotten as it has been a long time. However, there are some minus points of this sharp memory and you need to be little specific with your words as she may complain you about the same even after a very long time. For example, if you had an argument with your woman two months ago and you had said something that she hurt with, she may complain you for those words in your arguments as she never forgets such things.
Few men have reported that their women get angry or irritated unnecessarily sometimes as well as she apologizes for the same after few days. I have come with an important information for those men. Yes, there are certain days in a month in which you may find that she is behaving differently than usual. You are advised to notice whether those days are her menstruation days. Yes, it has been revealed that women react much differently in their menstruation days that usually last for four to five days. During those days, some hormones are released in the body that causes mood swings a woman may react differently than other days. She may just get hyper with an issue that she was okay with a few days ago. These hormonal fluctuations may also cause increased emotional sensitivity and she may get much defensive for herself or someone she loves. She may also feel nausea, lethargy, physical pain or increased appetite for the very same reason. You are advised to treat her with patience and empathize with the stage she is going through. These are days when she feels very low emotionally as well as physically and she seeks a special care from her man. You should take her suggestions and requests sincerely and follow up on that. It will help her come out the weaker stage quickly. Even if she gets angry and you haven’t made a fault, you should reply politely and assure her that you will fix it very soon.
As per a survey, there are a number of men who have complained that their woman is showing comparatively less interest in sex and they aren’t able to get why this is happening at all and for few men, it has become worse. Many men have broken up with their girlfriends and many have gone for divorce. But this is not the solution at all and that’s the reason why most of the men have experienced the same problem with their new partners. They were again complaining that their woman doesn’t show much interest in sex and she suddenly turns into a woman I don’t know at all. She is not always like that but she just gets irritated and becomes an over-aggressive woman when her man names sex. Men have really no idea about the change and hence they don’t know what they are supposed to do to stop such behavior in future. But that isn’t without a reason at all. Women have a reason for everything they do and it’s men’s job to find out why they are doing so or why they have decided to do that.
How Can It Be Fixed?
If you are still clueless, I am here tell you about a secret of women psychology. And the secret is that women don’t think like men and they are much emotionally sensitive rather men. They relate various incidents and activities in a specific manner to make an image of a man or to decide about something. For example, if a person is ill in the family, a feeling of sympathy arises in the mind of a woman and she gets emotionally attached to that person. She wants him or her to be well as soon as possible and she starts working for the same. Along with her household or office works, she serves the patient and takes care of his diet and medicines. She wants the well-being of that person and keeps thinking the whole day about the same until he or she completely gets well. In such conditions, she consistently suffers from uncertainty and anxiety and if a man insists her for sex in such conditions, she gets disturbed and reacts very aggressively. As her mind is completely focused on the health improvements of the ill family member, she knows that she won’t be able to co-operate her man with her full efforts and she doesn’t want to spoil the sex experience of her man that may switch off his mood as well. So, if your woman isn’t co-operating or is showing comparatively less interest in sex, you should try to find out what the actual reason is. It may be that someone in her family would be suffering from health issues, someone would have to suffer a huge loss in business or someone had just given her a bad news that could be of any type. What you should do in such situation is to ask the reason why she is feeling upset. Once you have known the reason and it’s not the curable one, you are supposed to show empathy her with your words and company. If it’s a reason that may improve with the time, you should motivate her with positive words and make her feel that she not alone and you are with her in each and every situation. Make her assure that you are there for her and you will be there every time she will need. If you are going to follow these facts and tips, I am sure not only you will be able to understand her behavior, but also will know what you need to do next.