Generally, family members live together. But everyone has to deal with long distance relationship at some time in life. It is quite easy to keep the relationship good when it the relationship is between parents and child, two friends, siblings, and other family relationships.
But when it comes to husband and wife, then things become little difficult as the carving to meet the partner is strong here and absence of partner appears to be a curse in life. And when it comes to the relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend then long distance can even make the relationship dead. Long distance could be very dangerous for such a sophisticated relationship.
Maintaining long-distance relationship could be not that easy because everyone starts living their own life. The partner is someone hidden behind the mobile phone and there are several real people around both of them to meet, make new friends, and make new connections as well as the relationship. Below are top 5 things you can do to keep the fire, touch, and liveliness in your long distance relationship with anyone that includes husband-wife and boyfriend-girlfriend –
Be Well Connected – Daily Talking and Listening
Everyone says talk to your partner to maintain long distance relationship. They are right but slightly more important is daily listening. Listening is something which brings the talker closer to the listener. If listing is absent while being with your partner then it may bring time to breakup. If you want your partner to stay close to you then listen more than you talk.
Always take initiative to say morning wishes and good night. When morning starts with the partner’s well wishes then it brings a feeling of being connected with the partner throughout the day and good night wishes will make full night connected with the partner in sub-conscious mind. You should be just a single click away from your partner. Get very well connected through multiple ways that include mobile phone, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram, Skype, and whatever you may think good for you is.
One more extremely strong way to get deeply connected is being present on the same platform at the same time. For example- if you two play an online game which requires two partners then you’ll be playing with your partner in real time. Wow! What a strange connection it will make; virtual as well as real connection.
Anther awesome thing you can do is… send a hand-written love letter. It gives an awesome feeling to receive love letter of a partner even when you talk to your partner on daily basis and multiple times a day.
Sharing all details from big & important topics to nitty-gritty things with a passion
This is such an important thing to do and such a powerful thing to do in order to keep your long distance relationship in full strength and might. There are two key points here… share everything and passion. It is critically important to share all important issues like ups and downs in the career, desires, important relationships with other people (good or bad), important decisions you are going to make, taking permissions, taking advice etc. If you miss sharing important things then just forget to keep your long distance for long. So, this is a MUST do a thing.
Besides, serious concerns of life, if you share small things as well, such as your new dress, nitty-gritty things happened in office, what you are eating today, what you are wearing today, how you reached office today, what you shopped today etc., then for sure you can expect strong relationship with your loved one living at a long distance. Making such a strong relationship can be achieved when you start loving at soul level. And that’s the reason why relationship advice by psychics works well.
Often meetings and make them wonderful and awesomely good
Go on short trips of 1 day to 1 week whenever possible. Meeting once in every month or every two months is recommended. If the distance is huge like you two living in completely opposite time zones then also have 2-3 meetings in a year. And keep the meetings as long as you can. And when you with your partner than simply forget rest of the world. Just be with your partner physically, mentally, spiritually, emotionally and in every possible way. Just ENJOY being with your partner. [For further reading: What All Your Woman Wants Except The Luxury?]
An alert here, everyone changes with the time, so just don’t focus on those changes and create any issue with them. Just focus on your pleasure and your partner’s pleasure of meeting each other. Enjoy food, sex, time, and everything every moment. Once you get deeply connected with your partner in every meeting and you two enjoy every moment with each other then it will only strengthen your relationship.
Always remember, a distance between two lovers can increase love between them or decrease it as well. What is the difference? The difference is how you feel when you are with each other. How you accept your partner to the core of your heart and how your partner accepts you to his/her core of heart.
The arrangement of required things
There are few more things you can do besides being well connected emotionally and spiritually, such as taking care of your partner. There are several things which come in mind of a female partner for her male partner which are of less or no importance to him. Similarly, there are several things which are of big concern for a female partner as per her male partner but female thinks like they are small. For example- women things that household items, daily cleaning, and good food are very important for a husband, but for men, these things are small as far as his understanding says.
Similarly, the way women travel to her office and back to home is a big concern for men (they want traveling should be done via private vehicle or hired taxi but not via public transportation), but for women, this is not such a huge and big deal. Hence, taking care of each other’s daily need and keeping things readily available to your partner is a big thing to strengthening your relationship. In conclusion, how much you care for your partner is one of the major factors which can make a big difference in your bonding.
Take care of your partner’s loved ones
Everyone has parents, brother, sister and other family members, and everyone loves them. Don’t forget a great say… “If you love me, then love my dog.” Actually, if you truly love your partner, then you’ll crave to do all those things which are liked and loved by your partner that includes loving and caring partner’s family members. Do you think that you’ll love your partner with great passion when (s)he treats your family members ill-mannered? NO, Right? Similarly, opposite is also true. If your partner loves and cares your family members then obviously you’ll develop more love, care, and respect for your partner.
It seems to me that if the love is very much true then long distance relationship will also be strong and lovely. But there are several people who love their partner to their core of the heart but don’t know how to express that love. Keeping your true love in your heart and not expressing it is not going to help you. The above said ways to express your true love will definitely do something really good for you with your long distance relationship. If you are interested in further ideas then these more tips will help you.