Do you think your home needs a paint job and you aren’t able to end up with a perfect color for the same? Have your friend invited you to invest for his new E-commerce company and you don’t know whether it’s safe for you? Or your boss is coming home for dinner and you have still not come up with the final menu? Well, these are a number of occasions when we need to make the decisions best for you, but at times we get confused and make the wrong decisions in a hurry. A good decision can help you achieve your goal and give a new direction to your life. The success will make you sit on cloud nine and you will be filled with new confidence to take further steps to make your life easier and less complicated. You will also not hesitate to take risks, if you know that it will make your life better if you succeed. On the other hand, if you make a wrong decision, it may put you in a worse situation. You may lose your confidence and will always be scared from the unwanted results. It may also stop you make decisions that are risky but may bring happiness for you if your plan works. In one sentence, your one wrong decision may make you mentally paralyzed and block you forever to achieve success in your life. There are millions of people who don’t understand the importance of a good or bad decision and hurt themselves with a bad one. Also, there are countless people who are quite afraid of the thought of failure of their plans and prevent themselves from the success they deserve with a bad decision. But, you don’t need to afraid at all. In order to make a sound decision, you just need to be little careful about your goals and keep few things in your mind before you for your plan.
- Identify your decision: The first thing need to do is to identify your decision. Yes, it’s too necessary to identify whether you need to go for it or not. For, example, if you are planning to give your bedroom a new color, what I mean by identifying the decision is that you should ask yourself that whether you are really fed up with the current theme of your bedroom? Have you been planning to do this for a quite long time? Have you come up with selection of next theme of your bedroom? Are you economically strong to bear the expenses, if they go beyond your speculations? And do you really need to do this on an urgent basis? These are some of the questions you can ask yourself to decide the necessity of a plan.
- Do your homework: Once you have decided that you are going to work a particular plan, the next thing to do is to do your homework. Yes, you heard it right! You should be very specific about the output you want from a particular plan. For example, if you have decided to change the theme of your bedroom, first of all set up your mind that how you want your bedroom to look like. If you are a nature-lover, you can give a forest green look to your bedroom with lots of green trees and wondering animals. And if you are a creative person, you can go for a light blue sky theme with clouds and birds over it. It decreases the possibilities of being disappointed with the result after investing lots of time and money.
- Look for the choices: The next thing you need to do is to look for options you can go for. You should try to gather the facts and information as much as you can. Ask your friends as well as well-wishers and also do some research from your side. For painting your bedroom only, you can contact the reputed service providers and discuss what you want exactly. If you don’t know one, you can ask your colleagues or neighbors who have recently gone for the same. You also take the help of internet to search the companies who are providing wall-painting and home decoration services worldwide.
- Discuss your goal: Now that you have asked your friends and browsed the internet, you have a long list of service providers who can help you to get your bedroom painted. But, the real task starts now. The advantage is that you have a number of options to go for and the disadvantage is the same only. This is a really big headache to choose the best one from available options. Most of people, who fail to implement their plans, have made a mistake in choosing the best available option for them. You should clearly discuss the desired look of your bedroom with multiple service providers and compare their services. These comparison can be made on basis of appearance of color, how long it will last, what are they charges and how much time they will take finish the given task.
- Pros and Cons: you should also make a chart of the pros and cons of different service providers. Mainly, try to honestly compare the charges and quality of the work provided. Also, you should be ready to face the upcoming situations, if everything doesn’t take place as per your plan. Such as you should not panic if your bedroom looks worse after getting painted. It may also happen that you may have to pay for more some additional charges that were not discussed or you weren’t informed earlier about. It also may be a case that the painting may take more time than what is expected or promised from your service provider. You are just needed to have plan B for every situation.
- Choose the best: Now that you have done all the necessary research to get your bedroom painted, the next thing to do is to place your order to the best service provider. If you are confused between the best two names and have no idea what to do next, you should contact the people you trust and ask for opinions. You can also gather the feedbacks for a particular service provider, from the people who have recently contended with a similar situation.
- Say ‘Action’: Now just make a decision and monitor the progress of our plan. You can also make a step-to-step chart to analyze the speed and direction of the same.
Points to Remember:
Obviously, there is no trick to see tomorrow and you can never know what will be the results of a particular plan or action. But you can definitely know the possible results of the same. They can good as well as bad results. Make list of the possible results and ask yourself if you are ready to face the unwanted situations. If your fails. If your answer is a yes, make a list of actions you will take if such a situation arrives. It will help you to remove the fear of losing and also you won’t have to worry their consequences. It will increase your confidence and help you to focus on your goal without any disturbance.
If you are still confused to make the right decision for you let your intuition decide the best for you. Yes, I am talking about the power stored within you. Intuition is a gift that every person is blessed with but among the noise to today’s fast lifestyle, one hardly pays attention and bothers to hear his inner voice. I am sure you would have accessed your intuition in your childhood life, but you possibly have stopped hearing your inner voice after getting a few negative feedbacks from your and teachers. Here, I am telling you the ways you can develop your intuition once again.
The first condition to develop your intuition is to clear your mind. It’s quite easy to hear the voice coming from your soul when your mind is empty and open. But you can’t hear your inner voice if there are a number of thoughts already boggling in your mind. It’s very important to make your mind quiet and calm. You would have to stop the occurrence of unnecessary thoughts in your mind. I know that you just can’t stop thinking immediately but you will have to learn it with practice. First of all flow all the distracted thoughts out of your mind. Sit in a relaxed position and close your eyes. Imagine sky and see your thoughts traveling in the clouds. Take deeps breathes and allow your body and mind to relax with every breath. You can count from 10 to 1 and your mind should be completely clear as well as relaxed.
Another thing you can do to develop your intuition is self-questioning. You should sit in solitude and ask questions to yourself, you want the answers for. By developing your curiosity, you’ll get a refined and trustworthy database which is unbiased by emotion. You will get to what your priorities are what you need to do your future best. You should also try to gain experience from the things you observe in your daily life. These tips will help to develop your intuition tremendously and will greatly help you to make the right decisions for you. You just need to believe in your intuitive powers and make a decision without being afraid of the consequences, if you fail. And last but not the least, if you have made your mind once and you have taken a particular decision; you should be firm on your decision till you receive the result and should not change your mind in between.